Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Homosexuality is natural - FACT

First of all, lets define "fact". Let's take Wikipedia's definition, but feel free to look into it yourself.

"fact (derived from the Latin factum, see below) is something that has really occurred or is actually the case. The usual test for a statement of fact is verifiability, that is whether it can be proven to correspond to experience. Standard reference works are often used to check facts. Scientific facts are verified by repeatable experiments."


Ok so facts are things that can be verified.


I was watching a fascinating presentation given by Christopher Ryan about human sexuality. If you have a spare hour, I highly recommend it, it's here.


The talk is primarily about the study of Chimps and Bonobo's and how this relates to human sexuality. To be clear, the Chimp and Bonobo are more similar to Human Beings from a DNA perspective than an African Elephant is to an Indian Elephant. That's close. 




He makes very interesting observations about monogamy and the very different and often opposite communities in which they operate and live. This is interesting as we sit between them and have an equal distance from a Chimpanzee as we do to a Bonobo - even though it may appear that historically we are taught that we have been more Chimpanzee influenced. You'll know what I mean if you watch it.


He made two very interesting points about homosexuality.


1. Homosexuality is only confusing for people when sexual interactions are about procreation. Interestingly the human sexual interactions ratio to child birth is likely to be in excess of 1000:1. That's at best 0.1% of the time. Therefore 0.1% of the time homo sapiens are having sex to have a child. The other 99.9% of the time sex is about cultivating the complex social relationships we have with others. 


Compare this to a Gorilla for example and the equation is 10-12:1. Therefore sexual activity in humans is not primarily about procreation as the Vatican might like us to think and therefore there is no mystery to homosexuality (in fact you could almost argue it's got very little to do with procreation at all). 


2.  Homosexuality can be observed routinely in over 450 animal species. Therefore even if you are a Gorilla with a 10:1 ratio of sexual acts to child birth, it is still natural for there to be homosexual activity (what about the other 9 times eh?).




You may not believe it because of religious dogma or because of arrogance or blind hatred, but homosexuality is natural and these two pieces of evidence alone are enough for it to be considered a FACT. 


And in case you are wondering - yes both Chimpanzee and Bonobo's both are observed to routinely display homosexual acts. Bonobo's are almost entirely considered bisexual as half of their sexual acts are generally with the same sex.

Friday, December 9, 2011

LGBT and the Church on Marriage

Ok I'm going to attempt this, every other time I've tried, some major thing has been announced and it changes everything.

This is my quick and dirty version of my thoughts on this:
People who don't agree with marriage usually have a religious belief to stand behind. I totally get this, as a once practising Christian I can see how you could say "the bible says..." or "I feel like God doesn't like..." on any issue as a perfectly reasonable way of pushing an agenda. It was fine! Very justified.

When I was at a Christian Christmas party once, I overheard a group of gentlemen talking about Gay marriage (ok I was part of the group, alright!?). They were discussing voting for John Howard (it was a while ago) over the Labor party solely because of the Liberal Party's stance on Gay Marriage. The exact comment that followed was "I couldn't think of anything more disgusting than two men getting married, the very thought makes me sick to my stomach". The other guys couldn't agree more and they laughed and mocked as best and hard as they could. That would go down as one of the most awkward conversations of my life, because as they were busy enjoying themselves I was feeling somewhat rejected and uncomfortable and to be fair, it was me that was sick to my stomach. This stopped being about God for them, they had let their guard down, it stopped being about Jesus, it was about them. Their ignorant hatred towards people that they didn't understand.

That's when it hit me. Any person with a religious belief about God not liking Gay Marriage actually doesn't like it themselves but isn't confident enough to just say that. Because the reality is that no one actually KNOWS for sure and certain what God does feel about Gay Marriage, because they aren't God. And even if they say they are God, it's still their call on the Gay Marriage. So basically we get into a situation where the conversation is now about Hate VS. Love. And we all know which one wins in the end folks. If history has taught us anything, it's that anyone that supports the Universal Declaration of Human Rights which is based on the premise that all people are born free and EQUAL are looked favourably on by history. This doesn't just mean race but sexuality, sexual orientation, disabilities and so on. We all have equal worth and should all be able to experience all that life has to offer.

Hillary Clinton did an outstanding job speaking on this issue and I recommend you check it out here. If it was a hollywood movie, this would be the Oscar winning performance. Seriously one of the best I've ever seen.

I think the Church have a lot to answer for when it comes to the damage they have caused to the thousands of individuals who have been hurt and inflicted pain on themselves and others because of what is preached from that pulpit as it relates to the LGBT community. Unfortunately, "sorry" won't cut it in this case, just as it didn't in the child molestation cases. The Church has a responsibility for their actions just as you and I do and people who promote messages of hate for LGBT people have no place in this world, especially if they are in a place of leadership.

As my good friend Hillary says, "be on the right side of history".




Friday, November 11, 2011

If you think Steve Jobs didn't change the world, think again...

I must say I was absolutely  blown away when I watched this video, and I hope you are too. Look at what Steve has managed to inspire in a grade 6 boy.

School has certainly changed since when I was a boy and that wasn't all that long ago.

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Just do it...

As my good friend says, "If you aren't living on the edge, you're taking up too much room".

Travel the world
Change jobs
Meet new people
Exercise
Learn to cook
Take some photos
Make someone a special gift
Buy a new car
Spend time with your family
Do some extreme sports

Do something different. You will never know where it will take you and really who cares? it's all about the adventure right?